Slow or Fast

The other evening at dinnertime, I told Jacob he needed to eat fast so we could go to the store after dinner, but be back in time for bedtime. Jacob is a notoriously slow eater and so I was trying to encourage him to eat dinner faster. He told me that he couldn't eat faster. And I replied that he had to so we could go to the store. And then he said to me, "Mom, slow is as fast as I can go!" I just started laughing out loud at him.

Katelyn's Tea Party

Katelyn had been bugging me for about a month to invite her friends over for a Tea Party. She has a little tea set that Grandma Bertasso got for her from Singapore and she really wanted to use it. I didn't really want to do it because I don't know how to throw a tea party, but I finally relented and she was so excited. She picked the date and time all by herself. Then she made her own invititations to give to her friends. I have to admit it was hard for me to let her give out the invitations she made since I am sucha perfectionist. But I am proud to say that I did and she was so proud of them. She got out her tea set and had me take a picture of it, which we then printed out and she put the picture on the front of the invitations (which were made with lined college rule paper!!). She wrote on the invitations that the party started at 12:30 and ended at 1:40!! I have no idea how she came up with those times. She even invited Jacob so he wouldn't feel left out. She really does have such a kind heart.

She spent the next week planning the Tea Party. She spent all week writing books for each of her friends that were coming. She made up the story and wrote the book and illustrated them too. It was so cute!! Then the night before, on Friday, she made some decorations that she taped on the front door and the front windows. She also made place cards that they could decorate and put on the table at each girl's place.

If you look closely, the words say "H-day" for Happy Day and "t-party" for Tea Party.

And here on the windows she drew balloons and streamers.

She told me that she wanted to serve jam sandwiches and ham sandwiches and instead of real tea, we should serve lemonade. I also decided to have some Mini Vanilla Wafers mini chocolate chip muffines and some grapes. Plus I cut the sandwiches into shapes with cookie cutters. All in all, I thought the party turned out really cute. And Katelyn had a ball. She was a great hostess and I am glad now that I let her have a Tea Party!!

Way To Go Katelyn!!

Katelyn started taking piano lessons last fall and on Saturday, March 7 she performed in our local Music Festival. She learned 2 pieces of music and then played them for 2 judges, who then rated her performance. It was her first time and she did so great!! She received a Unanimous Superior, which is the highest rating. Each year she performs, she will earn points towards trophies. We are so proud of her and this accomplishment. Way to go Katelyn!!!

Here she is in the Practice Room before she went into the judges room.

Here she is with the certificate she received.

This a video of Katelyn playing her Music Festival pieces on the piano at home.

Mother's Tea at Preschool

Just before Valentine's Day, Jacob's preschool had a "Mother's Tea" for all the mom's and the kids. The day before, the kids made muffins for it and special placemats. Before the tea, the kids did a little play and sang a song they learned called, "I Love You a Bushel and a Peck." Jacob was asked to play a part in the play, but he absolutely refused!! So, we watched it together while he sat on my lap.

Then we sat at our tables to eat. The kids served us the muffins and asked us what we wanted to drink (coffee, tea or juice) and then went and got it for us. They were really very cute. The kids even cleaned up afterwards! My favorite thing was what Jacob said was special about me. The teachers asked the kids and then wrote what they said on the placemats. Jacob said, "My mom likes stuff that I don't like. She likes cheese almonds; those are not my favorite. I like when Mom stays downstairs with me." When I asked him what "cheese almonds" were, he didn't have an answer for me!!

Long Overdue Update

I know it has been a long time since we posted anything. So I will try to give an update about the last month or so. We didn't take a lot of pictures, but I will share what we have with you.

The month of January was very snowy and cold. We had 2 days of school cancelled due to weather and then 2 holidays when there was no school. So, it felt like they were hardly in school. I think we got about 40 inches of snow in January and the kids loved it. They played outside when it was above 20 degrees.

One of the days that school was cancelled, the kids wanted to have a picnic in the family room. Here they are enjoying their homemade "Lunchables"


Here are the kids playing in the snow after one of the storms. I think this was also a day when school was cancelled. The snow was so deep they had a hard time walking in it.


Here is the view from out our front door. Notice how hight the snow is on our gas lamp in the front yard!!



On another day of no school the kids decided to play "tiger." They decided they wanted to really look like tigers, so they made their own costumes. I think they ended up taping the whiskers onto their faces!



And here is the large box that they turned into their African background for playing tiger. Katelyn made a sun, mountains, and a cloud to decorate it.

On another day of no school, the kids decided to play barbershop and of course, Maya and I were the customers.

And then for the Super Bowl, David decided to make Pittsburgh Steeler cupcakes. The cupcakes have gold cake and then he decorated the top with the Steelers logo. They turned out great and tasted even better.

She Did It!! She Did It!!

We are pleased to announce that Maya Marnae Bertasso can officially walk!! At the age of 17 months and 3 weeks old she finally decided to walk!! Below is a video as proof. Congratulations Maya!!!!!

Polar Express Train

We invited another family over to decorate our Polar Express Train that we do every year as part of our Christmas tradition. We read the book and then decorate our train. Here are the results......

Katelyn Goes to the ER

On Monday evening (December 22) I was making dinner when Katelyn headed into the living room for some reason unknown to me. A few seconds later, I heard a loud crash and then silence, so I figured she was fine since there was no crying. I then asked what had happened and received no response. So, I headed in to investigate when she came toward the kitchen holding her head and crying. She said something fell on her and I noticed blood on her hair. I had her sit down so I could determine how bad it really was. And when she heard there was blood, the tears really started and she was getting panicky. I got the bleeding stopped mostly and saw that she had a cut about 1 inch long just back from her hairline above her forehead. Then I discovered another puncture on the side of her head that was also bleeding. I called David, who was on his way home from work, and we decided that I would wait until he got there to head to the ER. Long story short, we went to the ER and they were able to glue the cut back together. She was very relieved she didn't have to have stitches.

I had to laugh at her in the car on the way to the ER, she asked me what they have to do if you lose all of your blood. She was worried that she was going to lose all of her blood because the cut was bleeding so much!!! She was very brave at the ER and didn't even cry when they were washing it and gluing it. My only complaint was that they were soooooooo slow. We got there at 6:40 pm and didn't leave until 9:10pm. And now we are waiting to wash her hair because you can't get the cut wet for about 4 days. Below is a couple of pics of the damage.

Pictures with Santa

We had the kids pictures taken with Santa for the first time and they turned out pretty cute. My friend did it and hired her own santa, so we didn't have to wait in line at the mall. Katelyn and Jacob had a good time and Maya wanted nothing to do with Santa, as you can see from the pictures!!

First Piano Recital

Katelyn began taking piano lessons over the summer and then we stopped when school started and just recently started her again. And Saturday she played in her first piano recital. She did a great job and I think I was more nervous than she was!! She played two duets with me (Sharyn). They were Jolly Old St. Nicholas and Over the River and Through the Woods. Below are some pictures. The light was really bright from the window behind the piano, so the pictures are not that great. I am going to try and get a recording of her playing the same songs here at home, so you can hear how she sounds.

Kids Say the Darnedest Things.....

So, tonight while decorating the Christmas tree with the kids, Katelyn said something to me that is a sad milestone for me as a parent. As I handed each of them an ornament, I would tell them if it was one of theirs or one of mine from when I was a kid. As I gave Katelyn an ornament, I told her it was one from when I was a kids and she said to me, "Mom, does mean that you were a kid in the olden days when they didn't have cars?" I couldn't help but laugh. And then I told her that no I was not THAT old. But apparently I have reached the age where my children believe I am really old. Funny thing too, because I remember asking my own parents something similar and truly being surprised they had cars when they were young!! I am also surprised that Katelyn even knows what the "olden days" are and that they didn't have cars in the olden days. Oh, to be young again. Wait, I am still young, no matter what my kids think!

New Pictures of the Kids

In October, I also had pictures taken of Katelyn and Jacob and of the three of them together. If anyone wants one of these, just let me know.

Maya's One Year Pictures

In September, I finally had Maya's pictures taken. But it took me forever to pick which ones to buy. Hence, the posting of her 1 year old pictures, 4 months after she turned 1!! So, for grandma's and grandpa's and aunts and uncles and anyone else who wants one of the pictures, just email me and let me know which one(s) you would like a copy of. Enjoy the show!!

Dancing Queen

For David's birthday, Jacob got him an American Greetings technology card. That means that it plays a song!! And the kids have loved listening to the card. Maya especially liked it and even started dancing. So, without further ado, here is Maya dancing and waving good bye. Hope you enjoy it. We think it is the cutest, of course.

Oh, the weather outside....

We had our first major snowfall of the season over this past weekend and the kids were thrilled, to put it mildly. So, on Tuesday, I let them go outside and play in the snow. They played for an hour and a half on Tuesday and again on Wednesday for 45 minutes. They just love the snow and I am always amazed they can stay out there for so long.

Our neighbor came over to play with the kids.

The kids love to go down the slide in the snow.
This was right before Jacob came into the house because he was actually cold. He does look a little miserable!!

Happy Birthday to David

November 7 was David's birthday!!! He didn't give me permission to tell you how old he is, so I won't!! On Friday evening, we got a sitter and I took him to dinner at Morton's. It is a steak place and they serve huge steaks!! We had a nice meal and then headed home. On Saturday we celebrated with the kids. At his request, we had brownies and ice cream. We sang to him and he opened presents. Nothing super exciting, but we are sure glad he was born!! We love you David!!!

One Year Anniversary

This past Sunday, November 9, was the one year anniversary of Jacob's Type 1 Diabetes diagnosis. I can't believe it has already been a year. Those first few months seemed to go by so slow and were so hard, as we adjusted and learned and tried to teach Jacob. In some ways it was a really hard adjustment and in some ways it was not. I remember those first few weeks when it took two of us to give him his shot because one of us had to hold him down. It just broke my heart and I felt so bad for him. Sometimes it just doesn't seem real that it will never go away, that it is not some passing thing that he will outgrow. Although I sure wish he would!!

He is doing great after one year. The doctor says we are doing great and there have been no complications. We have the routine down and Jacob is starting to understand what a carb is and what it means for him. There are still days that are a real struggle with food and shots, but most of the time, Jacob is really good about the routine.

I think for me the hardest part is that diabetes is so unpredictable. Just because we do everything we are supposed to do, doesn't mean that his sugar will always be in the right range. There are times when his blood sugar is all over the map and we have no idea why. The other part that is so hard is that there is NEVER a break. There is never a day when we can say, let's jus take a break. It is a 24 hours a day, 7 days a week, 365 day a year for the rest of his life disease. There are no vacations or remissions or days off. And I know that as he gets older he will be able to take more responsibility for it himself, but until then, it is up to us.

But in the end, it is a managable disease and I am so thankful for the medical technology that makes it managable and that hopefully someday, there will be a cure. Until then, we will keep on doing what we're doing. It is amazing to look back and realize how far we have come, that it doesn't feel like a death sentence and that life goes on and you do what you need to do. Thank you to our family and friends for their support and help over the last year. We are grateful for the blessings we have been given. We know the Lord is watching over us and Jacob and that he will have a happy and long life. He is still the goofy kid we love.

Halloween Happenings

The weather turned out perfect for our trick or treating and the kids had a ball. Maya has figured out what candy is and constantly begs for some from the kids stash. And our first Halloween with Jacob and diabetes was much easier than I anticipated. He has been really good about rationing the candy and since the fun size ones don't have many carbs, they are actually a good treat for him.


Here are the kids carving pumpkins. They both carved their own pumpkins, all by themselves. They even managed to not cut themselves!!






Here are the finished products. Katelyn decided not to put a face on hers this year, not really sure why.





And here they are all lit up.










David got really creative and ambitious and this is what his creation turned out to be. Notice the shadow in the background.





And here are the kids all dressed up. Jacob loved his costume so much, I think he wore it for some part of everyday before Halloween.

Our little "Scooter"

Maya is now 15 months old. And she does not and probably will not ever crawl. But when she was 13 months old (I know I am kind of late) she figured out how to scoot on her bum. And over the last couple of months she has used this form of transportation and is now pretty fast at it. She can get pretty much anywhere she wants to, except up steps. And someday she will walk, but for now it is so funny to watch her scoot. Below is a video of our "scooter," which has become her new nickname!!

Look Mom..... No Training Wheels!!

We have been working with Katelyn for about 2 months now, to teach her how to ride without training wheels. And last Thursday, Oct. 9, she figured it out!! Then, Jacob wanted to learn how to ride without training wheels too. So, we moved the handle over to his bike and by Saturday, Oct. 11, he had figured it out. They love to ride their bikes and are so proud. And so are we!! Way to go Katelyn and Jacob!!!